Hi,
To use a multi-switch, apart from some such as the EMP-Centauri models, you need a quattro rather than a quad LNB. Also with distribution systems it is reccomended to get a lightly larger dish than normal, to compensate for some of the extra losses you will get with a distribution system. On that note, you would be beter off getting a new standard dish, slightly larger and fitting a quattro to it. Then you would need a multiswitch with 5 inputs and as many outputs as you need ( a 5 in in 12 out perhaps). To add the other inputs for FM, DAB etc you can get combiner modules so that they all feed into the 5th input on the multiswitch. A triplexer is only needed to get all the different frequencies back out of the cable, they can be combined to get them in.
Not sure why you would want to use a stacker/destacker as it is just extra expense, much cheaper to run an extra cable.
Which coax are you using exactly?, and what is the length to the
Sky box. As another consideration for using the stacker/destacker is that the cable run is not to be too long and that it will cope with the higher frequencies used by the stacker.
BTW, I have changed the thread title, it is better to make it a bit more useful than 'help please'