Firstly regarding polarity, look in the first column on this page _http://www.lyngsat.com/astra19.html, the frequency will be listed with an H or V after it. Regarding high or low band, it will to a degree depend on the receiver settings, but as a rule, anything over 11,600 will be high band.
You may consider using the Global Invacom fibre optic LNBs and converters, as these have a choice of breakout units, twin, quad, quattro and splitters. would mean only one optic cable per satellite received.
Unfortunately I have no knowledge of the Blonder Tongue range of kit so cannot comment, although the model you speak of is for NTSC and specifically designed for an American provider. Could it be that you require a composite video output from the receiver and not a UHF modulated signal?
We have at least a couple of members here who are quite clued up on IPTV, hopefully they'll pick up on this thread.
Regarding the dishes, you could probably use something like the Visiosat Big Bisat, or Torroidal 90cm dish for four of the satellites and the 90cm for 68.5 East, would certainly make a neater installation.