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I am 36 and have three children of six years, four years and eight months with my partner, with whom I have shared my life for nine years. I am the main carer for them, do most of the household chores and work outside the home part-time. I feel exhausted, I do not get enough sleep and the last thing on my mind is s*x. My libido is gone. This is causing problems with my partner.
BD
Dear BD
The best thing for women to do in this situation is to ask the man's advice on how she could organise her time more effectively so that she has time for her conjugal duties as well as her domestic and childcare duties. Men are often willing to give such advice, being solution orientated, and are often skilled in time management and scheduling. Then, once he has told you how to rework your schedule, fell him with a blunt object and set fire to him.
I am 36 and have three children of six years, four years and eight months with my partner, with whom I have shared my life for nine years. I am the main carer for them, do most of the household chores and work outside the home part-time. I feel exhausted, I do not get enough sleep and the last thing on my mind is s*x. My libido is gone. This is causing problems with my partner.
BD
Dear BD
The best thing for women to do in this situation is to ask the man's advice on how she could organise her time more effectively so that she has time for her conjugal duties as well as her domestic and childcare duties. Men are often willing to give such advice, being solution orientated, and are often skilled in time management and scheduling. Then, once he has told you how to rework your schedule, fell him with a blunt object and set fire to him.