Indeed, you are correct about the increased cost for a US manufacturer. I'm certainly hoping that one of these European companies is able to produce the reflector for us. An F/D of 0.3 would probably be fine, and I've already sent off a quote to Elital. They seem the most capable of the ones you've listed, anyway. I hadn't mentioned it, but our customer (and antenna) are located in Italy, so it would be quite advantageous to use them because of that reason, as well.
The sub-reflector is indeed adjustable to some degree. The offset can be moved in and out quite a bit.
The sub-reflector is indeed adjustable to some degree. The offset can be moved in and out quite a bit.