[edit: this part of my question has been answered elswhere in the forum (thanks analiguesat ]
Edit: the card programer needs drivers for the computer which he doesn't have. He thinks part of the name of the programer was "baby". Anyone got any ideas as to what make/model it is? it's not a USB one, it's a bit old, COM port he thinks?... I know it's a bit like a needle in a haystack but I've attatched a picture. It's in a box, but it didn't come with that.